You’re right, you didn’t make our daughter amazing – however you made her start seeing how amazing she is, and you gave her the confidence and tools to work with her skills and talents. Her relief and “suddenly everything makes sense” and references to how you said this and that that is so spot on comes out in drips, while I’m just happily sitting back listening. And you should have seen her cheeky smile when she said you’d talked about how this could explain why she was always so angry when coming home from school, and why she and I argued so much. Best ever. You are amazing.